Tuesday, January 12, 2016


This is the time of year that a lot of New Year's resolutions start circulating and other such plans for the future.  I must admit I am one of those that start to think about the next year ahead when December rolls around but know that New Year's resolutions are a bit of a faff and that if you make them you are pretty doomed to fail at them.  Anyway, I wasn't planning on doing a 'New Year's' post like this, because really, who is interested in reading about my plans for the year.  BUT then I realised that I so enjoyed reading about what my friends Stephanie and Kiki have in store for the year, (which weren't lists of resolutions by the way, but rather goals...which I thought was a WAY better idea) that I thought I would make a little list of my own. 

So here goes....

Lose Baby Weight.  I can't believe I just wrote "lose baby weight" down....particularly because my 'baby' is 2 and a half years old.  My back has been really bad since I've had my daughter and as a result I've found it virtually impossible to exercise without increasing the pain.  Over the last few months I have had orthotics in my shoes and these are making some difference so finally I have been able to exercise.  I also was given a bit of a shove into getting rid of the excess me because I couldn't fit into my jeans (boo hoo!) when I was having a bit of a clear out of the wardrobe, so immediately I signed up to the Lose Baby Weight challenge.  There are so many delicious easy recipes to make and so much support from other women doing the challenge via their Facebook group that I am finding it really easy.  So far over 3 weeks I have lost 3 kilograms (which sounds way better in pounds.... over 6 and a half pounds!) and lost centimetres off all my measurements.  It's been fabulous!  Plus I'm feeling a lot better and getting fitter.  Weirdly my exercise consists of me marching up and down the hallway (in time to dance music) because I can't get out of the house to exercise, what with the kids, but now over the last two days I have also started to incorporate some jogging on the spot into this because I obviously will need to up the exercise to burn the calories, but I also have found that only 3 weeks of walking has vastly improved my fitness.  Normally a 'lose weight' resolution is never successful, it's something that is imposed on you by guilt after stuffing yourself with turkey and pudding over Christmas, but I started this the week before Christmas.......and despite Christmas and New Year's I still lost a kilogram a week.  I know I can stick at this because I am actually enjoying it and really seeing some results!  Yay me!  (Note....above is one of the 'healthy' recipes...a Chocolate pudding made in mug with caramel sauce! and below are Vegetarian nachos!!)

Take care of myself.  As a mum, particularly one with lots of kids, you can sometimes fall in to the trap of losing yourself.  You are so wrapped up in caring for your kids and your partner that you just keep coming last.  For example, I had a haircut just before Christmas.  Before that I had a haircut 9 months before.  Before THAT haircut it had been 12 months since I had seen my hairdresser.  This is terrible!  My poor hair!  And trust me, I have pretty crazy hair now that needs lots of attention.  I used to have fairly straight hair but since having my last 3 children it's just got curlier and curlier.  It's also really thick and there is a lot of it.  Henceforth I NEED to go and get it cut every 8 to 12 weeks AT LEAST.  Soooooo......this is what I plan on doing from now on.  Making sure that I take care of myself, get that haircut, go and have a remedial massage when my back starts getting too sore, take time out to rest even.  This year I will have my 3 boys at school (the eldest will be starting high school and the other two are both off to school for the first time!) and I will be putting my daughter in day care a day or two a week.... so there will be time now to finally have some time out for myself.  Whether that means I just get to do the food shop without the screaming, or actually get to go see a movie that I really want to see...I'm not a hundred percent sure yet....but it's going to be great whatever happens.  I just know it.

Get involved.  I'm a real introvert.  Really.  All I do is stay at home.  And the truth be told I actually don't have a buddy.  I have buddies overseas, the bestest best buddies a girl could ask for, but I'm yet to meet them and unfortunately I can't just catch up with them for coffee.  My dear friend from school, who I see probably once every six months, lives about an hour and a half away, so catching up with her is also difficult.  And then there is the excuse that life gets in the way, which it does, particularly when your schedule is dominated by those of your children.  Anyway, this year I am going to join the parents group at my boy's new school, be one of the 'reading' mums and go out of my way to make some friends.  Arrgghh.  It sounds so sad and pathetic....you know...that I have no friends...but I would not be alone in this.  I went to a school in the city and since then the students have all scattered to various parts of the GLOBE...whereas here where I live, in a rural town, it's not uncommon that people just stay and you can know someone your whole life.  Moving out here about 8 years ago was the best decision I ever made, but it has meant starting over friends wise.

Find myself.  Well, not that I'm really lost but the Amber that used to exist doesn't really exist anymore.  I used to always sing in a choir.  I'm actually classically trained.  Did you know that?  Probably not.  I would like to get back into that because the other day, when I was wasting time on Facebook, I ended up watching a video of a choir singing and I promptly burst into tears.  I know.  Freak. I was probably hormonal, but I realised how much I MISS it.  This year the little local dance school (that my son was dancing with last year) is now opening up adult tap classes, and having done tap in the past I thought I would sign up.  Fun AND good exercise!  They are also opening up the classical ballet classes too, which I think would be fabulous for my flexibility and my back.  I am also toying with the idea of selling Intimo again, which for those of you who don't know is a direct selling company that sells the most gorgeous lingerie.  I did it for a couple of years and did enjoy the company.  The women involved are amazing, you know, incredibly inspirational, plus I always feel like I have a purpose if I can contribute financially.  Plus the little bit of extra cash would be nice too. 

Keep writing.  Writing is who I am so I intend to keep posting here, although without any goals to become 'the next big thing in blogging'.  I also have a book idea that I might dabble at.

Travel!!  Yes.  This is the year that I get to travel!  I know, can you believe it!  My husband is going shearing in England in May this year for about 6 weeks or so, and although I'm going to be on my own with the kids for over a month (and yes...hating it, I must admit) I will be heading over to be with him towards the end of his stay and NOT taking the kids!  We will be having a proper holiday (as long as he's finished shearing...fingers crossed!), just the two of us.  And considering we haven't had a holiday since our honeymoon..... I can't wait!!!!

I hope you have some good plans/goals for this year!


  1. I love that you are focusing more on what you eat. Not because of the baby weight, but more so the healthy aspect. haha. I always tell Joshua who constantly harps on his body and says he "wants to lost weight," that if you diet or try to eat better with the intention of losing weight, you will most definitely fail. We tell ourselves "oh I'll eat salad and lose weight," then after a month get upset that we haven't lost weight. Success is more earned when you take that positive thinking and channel into thinking for the future. You want to be in the best health for your kids, your partner, and above all, yourself. (:

    From what I read, you have one way listed above to tackle two of your goals. If you can find a choir to join, perhaps check local churches, there's your way right there to branch out and meet new people. It's perfect. Not only will you be doing something you love (which I had no idea and how cool) you'll be around other people who love it too! I so wish I could drive on over and have an afternoon coffee with you! We could let Penny and Imogen run wild, kick back and enjoy the summer. (; Remember it's freezing here. haha

    I can't wait to hear about your travels and see them. Of course I expect a ridiculous amount of photos. (; This is like a nice little get away for you and your husband. It's going to be wonderful and I couldn't be more excited for you!

  2. I wouldn't mind diets so much if they were all as yummy as this one looks! :) x


  3. I totally agree with what you said about the "Losing weight" resolutions not being successful. I put on about 10kgs in 2012 (Yes, 10 kgs! to be fair, I weighed 42kgs to begin with) and it's 2016 and I still haven't lost a significant amount! I promise myself every year, but I fail! :(
    I hope you have a happy and amazing 2016 and achieve all the goals that you have in mind for the year :)

    Do visit me if you ever have the time <3

    La Belle Dame

  4. Ooo they look delicious! thanks for sharing. Do you want to support each others blog by following each other? Please let me know so I can follow you right back:)


  5. Ok, I'm not sure what happened but I totally read this and THOUGHT I commented already?? Maybe I didn't hit "submit".
    Anyway, out of all of these goals I really think taking care of yourself is most important! If you don't take care of yourself, there won't be a you, and we all need Amber to stay in this world as long as possible!!!!

    MUCH LOVE!!!

  6. I feel you! I am always the last one to get taken care of too! We need to remember to pamper ourselves as well.